Hi guys. Me again...lol. I'm here to tell u about your school problems and how to handle them. If you have had a school problem in the past and you want me to post it on here and/or give you advice, just email me at limegreen624@aol.com, ok?
Also if you try this advice and you want 2 tell me how or why it did or didn't work out for you, also email me. Thx!!!
Here are some problems that have been emailed to me and below them are my responses:
1. I get bullied ALL THE TIME. I'm a straight A student and lots of people think I'm really brainy and wierd, but just the other day a girl came up to me and said, "You're such a loser. I don't even know why I'm talking to you. I'm WAY out of your league." Then she walked away with her clique. How do I handle this stuff?!?!
--Signed, Loser League
Chances are, this girl and all the others who think you're a wierd brainy kid are just jealous that you're a straight A ace. You should say this: "Well, maybe you think that, but I know that isn't true. Lots of people are jealous of me for reasons I can't explain--you must be on that list of people. Don't worry, though, because I forgive you."
2. Recently the most popular girl in my middle school said to me, "Why are you so wierd? If you were smarter, prettier, cooler, and wealthier, even then i don't think you could get in with my group." Then she tossed her head and smirked, waiting for a response. But i was too speechless to say anything.
--Signed, Pop Wanna-be
Let's get down to the core issue. It's that you want to be popular, right? But what good is it to be popular if you have to hang out with mean people who are always insulting your old friends? Just stick to your group who know everything about you--even if they are nerdy and you're tempted to join the populars. Deep down inside, you know where your loyalty lies, and it's more important to have a few really good friends than to be popular.
3. Sometime in 2nd quarter a girl and her popular group came up to me and asked if I had plastic surgery because I developed faster than most girls. I was dumbfounded by her, but i want to get back to her on that question. What should i say--when i finally rack up the nerve?
--Signed, Anynomous
Here is my advice: Of course, say no, because then you're standing up for yourself and that's good. But don't go over board. Try not to look at her so she doesnt target u again, but try to forgive her.
